what is a date?? if u hook up at a bar n go home together are u dating??.. if u tell her u look gr8 o hav her phone number are u dating??just standing next to someone long enough at a party then pair up and b in a relation without any actual effort....
seriously guys wot is dating?????? its not infatuation....its just an opportunity to spend time one on one to see if der's a spark..thats it... dating is fun guys as always... but now u see all d ppl around u gettin into courtship and loving sum1 just coz dey are attractive...later down the line u get committed and wot happens den u break up coz things dint work for u in the long run... dats wen it hurts the most..so people date first..datin is simple and fun..dating was never meant to be tortuorus obstacle course that you had to suffer through, not the culmination of all our dreams that aren't being fulfilled crashing down wen it doesnt work.. coz u hav nothing to loose here it just that u get to know the person beforehand..so dat it doesnt hurt in the long run...and it wont bcoz its you who control how to date , not ane1 else--including the person you're on date with.so be a winner and being the best you can be."damn i love it wen its so accurate"!!
some basic rules for datin:
1: never compromise
Think for wot u stand in life, what you represent in the world..n wot u want out of a relationship. Then know that the expextaion and excuses you make for people by compromisin..its like lowering your standard, will only bite in the ass later. i know it and i have got the bite marks to proove it. ;-)
2: respect
respect the other person..n ur self too. some1 that values himself o herself as much as they value the person they want to be with. Be respectful and honest to others and accept no less from them.
3: Strategy
wot is a strategy???
a) The science or art of planning things to achive a certain goal...(nope)
b) an evolutionary theory, a behaviourstructure, or other adaptation that improves viability. (damn it!!! true...)
strategy is just wot we need in our everyday life so ders nothing worng with it..(teeja sahab!! humare agle plan ke mutaabik) see everyone has a strategy...in movies, d director who makes it also has a strategy up in his mind..aaahaaa!! but be sure while creating a strategy u are keeping the first two points in your mind too..
YOU can belive u want a better dating life but unless you are willing to do the work, nothing will change...
just remeber opposites attract.... dey need u ..u need dem..dats it..go ahead talk to them...
(kyunki gents doggi ko kya chahiye..ladies doggi ji)..lols
